A couple has 3 unique personalities. The first two personalities belong to each individual of the couple. The third personality is the relationship personality on its own. Just as each person needs to be fed and cared for so does the relationship. The couples relationship is a living breathing thing. As with all living things it is either growing or dying. When we are born, we have parents, doctors and teachers to help us learn how to care for our bodies, develop our minds and shape our character.
The feeding and caring of your relationship requires the same level of discipline and structure as taking care of your body. However, unlike the parents, doctors and teachers who guide us as children to learn how to eat and rest properly to develop healthy bodies, no one teaches us how to “work” on a healthy relationship. Once we commit to another person we are just supposed to know what to do and live “happily ever after”.
However, the secret every couple knows is that behind closed doors and in the quiet of our hearts, we have no idea what we are doing once the conflict starts. And if you are in a “normal” and even in a happy and healthy relationship, there will be conflict. Conflict is one of the ingredients in the “fertilizer” that makes relationships grow. Conflict offers relationships the greatest opportunity for growth or destruction. Conflict takes many forms. It can be quiet and distancing or loud and mean. It can take us to the edge. But, if you have found Couples Synergy and are reading this then you are a person who wants more for your life and your relationship. We did too. And we have helped thousands of couples do just that.
This exclusive program is designed for our couples who desire personal care and a program customized specifically to meet their needs. We have found that all the great character traits that make a person successful in business and other areas of life are often times in direct conflict with what is needed to create a great relationship. The good news is that your ambition, your attention to detail, and your ability to stick with something until you master it, works in your favor.
Just like we hire personal trainers and executive coaches to take our physical health and our careers to the next level, Couple 2 Couple was designed as a developmental model to teach couples how to grow beyond what their parents and their environment has taught them about relationships. Sadly, marriage counseling has the least success rate amongst all counseling practices and has been associated with chronic mental illness, behavioral problems and mood disorders.
Fortunately, Dr. Ray and Jean do not see relationship struggles as pathological, but as inevitable challenges of growth. From this perspective, C2C offers a level of coaching and marriage mentorship beyond marriage counseling, offering opportunities of success unimaginable. The reality is that we all need a second set of eyes to see something from a different perspective. In C2C, you get two sets of eyes from a successful married couple, to take a deep and detailed look at your current relationship, show you the purpose and meaning behind your relationship, and then teach you the skills needed to create something beyond what you ever thought was possible.
Power couple and relationship experts Dr. Ray and Jean Kadkhodaian will personally work with you and your partner to show you how to design, create and live a thriving, healthy life. Divorce is expensive both, financially and emotionally. The Couple 2 Couple program is designed to reduce the effects that an unhealthy relationship has on the individual and their children.
We get into relationships ideally to change, to heal and to grow. When a couple stops growing together, friction, disappointment, resentment and confusion grow instead. The longer a couple waits to seek help the longer they feed the problem. Unfortunately, the average couple waits six years before seeking help.
Dr. Ray and Jean have worked with thousands of couples. The primary goal of their work is to help each person in the relationship become whole and healthy. They have found that their Couple 2 Couple Program empowers the individual, and in turn the couple, to make powerful and truthful decisions with integrity. That often results in each person choosing to create an amazing life with the partner they fell in love with. The skills and self awareness you will learn in C2C will also change the way you relate in all your relationships for the rest of your life.
C2C is a 12 week cumulative program with each week building on the last. Each week, you and your partner will have a personal, one hour meeting with Dr. Ray and Jean. Outside of these personalized sessions, you will be given assignments designed to continue your growth throughout the week. Some of these assignments will be individual, and some will be as a couple. Each C2C program is tailored to the needs of the couple and will be determined as is fitting to your unique situation.
Please email or call us with an additional question you may have about this incredible program. We are looking forward to helping you create the relationship you’ve always dreamed of, with the partner you fell in love with.